Hello everyone. Feels good to be here at my blogging corner again, having some quiet time for writing. The Jewish holidays are over now – All things must pass. A month of one holiday after another, each with its special customs and food. Oh, food is a big issue in Jewish tradition. In fact, I love it, as we spend a lot of creative kitchen time together, preparing meals for big family dinners.This year it was different as, right after Rosh Hashanna, the Jewish New Year, my beloved father-in-law, Menachem Malron, passed away at the age of 86. We were staying around his Hospice bed day by day, sharing our last days and hours with him, flooded with love that we have received from him all those years, giving him our love back, as much as he deserved. This good-hearted person was a holocaust survival and God only knows how he survived this inferno. We have a few notebooks filled with his unbelievable stories from these terrible years, when he was just a little child. He was very proud of his family, the most important thing in his life – it symbolized his victory. Our kids were very lucky to have such a unique grandfather. We will miss him until our last day on earth. All things must pass, but our love for him will live forever with us. Menachem helped me with everything I needed to create my CrochetObjet world. He had a special soul for small details and he had ‘good hands’. One of the things he loved the most was making these tiny little fabric buttons. As you probably saw, these are now out of stock on my Etsy shop, as I really want to keep them and don’t feel comfortable selling them yet. They will only be available within the kits. Once I feel comfortable enough to make them myself again, I might put them back for sale. Menachem always loved to see what I’m busy with. As he really appreciated hand-made things, it made him happy to see me crocheting my projects. All those hours around his bed, I had a lot of time to crochet and… to browse, of course. One of the things I discovered while browsing next to his bed, was this amazing Japanese lady – JungJung. I came across her crocheted vegetables on Pinterest and literally got mesmerized to her work.
I spent hours staring at her amazing crochet vegetables. The flowers were so beautiful that I couldn’t stop myself from trying to create a GrannyKit cotton version of them.
I took out my 1.5 mm hook and crocheted my Jungjung flowers version. Oh, this was the perfect escapism and I am so grateful to her for keeping me busy through these sad days at the Hospice. Making these flowers and leaves trials, I learnt few new things about the magic of crochet, once again I faced the fact that crochet is a big mental support. Like meditating.
I’m so lucky to have crochet in my life. A month has gone by, and we are learning to live our life without our beloved ones. This is how it works. I guess some of you know exactly what I’m talking about.So, as you can see here, together with autumn, I am back on my routine but it is a little different routine. New routine. I’m back at my desk again, busy with few new, very interesting projects, which I can’t wait to share with you. I’m busy planning and writing new patterns for my workshops and for my Etsy shop. I will tell you everything about all theses soon. xoxMo.
P.S. This song was on my playlist, while writing this blog post and it actually got straight into this post mood. All things must pass, by George Harrison – one of my favourite.
15 comments on All Things Must Pass
Sandra
Such a beautiful photograph of those hands together in that first image. It’s always so hard to lose someone you love, even though it is part of our lives.
You have been making beautiful things with your hands again. Those leaves are just lovely and so dainty.
Mo Malron (author)
Thank you so much for your nice and “make me happy” comment
Linda
So sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. My mother passed in Feb 2014 (also at age 86) after years of dementia so in a sense we “lost” her some years before she died and still I miss her.
I can identify with the therapy and peace that crochet can bring. Lovely flowers!
Thanks for sharing your heart!
Mo Malron (author)
Thank you Linda, sorry to hear of your loss too. I think crochet came into my life for a very good region and as you said on your comment it brings peace of mind. Happy you liked the flowers, I’ll put more of them on future posts.
Koral Ve'aShoval
Love you. Love your thoughts. Love your writing. Love your art.
Teresa
Very sorry for your loss. My brother (60yo), passed last September and I miss him sooo much… I understand how you all feel about.
And I understand how crochet helps in these moments. Seeing all your beautiful creations are a great medecine. I’ve had a look at JungJung Pinterest and I’ve seen an Hydrangea from Olgatokyo really awsome. I’d love to have this pattern.
Thank you for all your hard work
Paula Evans
Hello, Mo: Sorry to hear about your beloved FIL. Yes, I know what you’re feeling and know that the sadness slowly fades as we carry on with life, but your heart will always have that little spark left for that person who is gone. The buttons Menachem made are really special. I would have a hard time parting with them also. So beautiful. I had not seem them before as I’ve only discovered you in the past six months or so. Thank you for sharing your beautiful stories with us.
Gail
You are so brave to share such personal things with us. It is good you have your belief and your culture to enable you to celebrate life as well as endure it’s passing. Thank you. As always your posts warm my heart and your craft bringing you peace and meditation is heartwarming as I share that with you. I lost my father 15 years ago now and miss him terribly very day, but peaceful time heals although never replaces. Special thoughts to you at this time and thank you again for sharing.
Michelle
Thank you so much for those encouraging words – exactly what I needed to hear today. Peace to you and your family.
Sue.
I am so sorry for your loss,and what a gift he has been to your family. Best wishes and prayers sent your way.
Susann Hipp
Dear Mo,
very sorry for your loss. My Dad (66yo), passed this July and I miss him sooooooo much… I understand how you feel about.
I also have a special song which speaks to my heart. The Name is; DAD from Neele Ternes. Mo thanks for your warm words and your beautiful and inspiring blog. Wish you and your Family all the best, our Dads will be forever in our hearts. Susann
Brenda Chaffee
I just bought your granny chevron blanket pattern and I do not understand how to do the 5dc bubble. Is there a tutorial or pictures of how to do this stitch?
Thank you!
Brenda Chaffee
Mo Malron (author)
Here is a link to show you how to make it Brenda:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_aVEWSoEeI
Flor
Tan amorosas palabras y todos tua cuidados a tu suegro dicen mucho de el y de vos. Todos los sobrevivientes del holocausto son perlas y sus descendientes son verdaderos tesoros porque son la muestra de que al fin siempre gana el amor y la vida. A pesar del horror de la muerte del espanto perduran las tradiciones la unidad la familia la continuidad. Hace poco leí las memorias de otra sobreviviente Mónica Dawidowicz en su libro Todos mis nombres. Y me conmueve esos testimonios. Sería maravilloso que pudieran hacer un libro con los apuntes guardados de tu suegro así muchos más podríamos conocer ese camino arduo para sobrevivir. Memoria para nunca olvidar. Saludos desde Buenos Aires ARGENTINA.
Cynde Davis
Thank you so much for the very fast shipment. I know this came at a time of grief for you so I am grateful for doing this. Your father in law was a remarkable man and you were fortunate to have such a relationship with him. My best to your whole family and I am sorry for your loss.